Ragam Manusia

Take a look around you.. especially those people who you think that you know them really well. Do you really know them? or know them for the sake of knowing them? I've been keeping this for a long time already, it's just that i do not know how to spill it in a good manner. Let it sounds like generally.. not specifically point it to anyone. People' understanding might be different from us.. kot-kot ada yang terperasan lebih, nanti tak pasal-pasal konon emotional tak bertempat pulak kan...

i did observed few peoples around me (closest one). It's about friendship of course. To have a really good, caring, and honest friend is not easy. Sometime we feels like we already have one (or more), but do we really know our friend? Friends can be anything, and there were few that i've been found out.. but this one is my personal punya rasa laa..

1. claims that he/she is your good friend, but when you really are in need of her positive vibes, he/she's not there.

or

he/she might be there, but you get nothing from him/her.

2. Been together for ages, but you're the one yang jadi kuli batak dia or like lembu kena cucuk hidung. Ada jugak yang macamni, and the person yang konon our best friend tu, just nak take advantage on our kebaikan. Pun ada jugak...

3. Chipsmore friend. Macam chipsmore la.. Sekejap ada, sekejap takde ... bila susah, baru nak terhegeh-hegeh cari kita.. bila senang, you wont hear anything from him/her.. not even one sms.

4. Kawan yang konon really nice in front of us.. behind us??? talking craps about you? Memang dasar bontot masam la kan..

Haih.. friends can be anything folks.. Ada yang baik dengan kita, but with others, he/she's not.. and it can be otherwise.

I did come across one situation in friendship thingy, where this person can be said as too obsessed with her friend which i can describe her friend as someone who is just nak take advantage atas kebaikan this person. I mean.. really.. this person sampai sanggup put her family away just because of her friend.. it's crazy ok.. well, im glad that they now been seperated.. this girl really make a mess to the family with her "rubbish" stories.. dia rasa orang percaya dia kot.. but actually, silap.. the family just couldnt accept her anymore in life and cant accept her anymore to be their daughter's friend.

Just think ok, a true friend should always make each other happy. But this lady, yang konon nya a good friend (topeng je) boleh marah her friend sebab lebihkan family dari dia.. anyway.. GILA KA???? siapalah kita nak orang lebihkan dari keluarga orang tu sendiri.. This crazy woman maybe bukan datang dari bumi kot? entahlaa..

Dear Allah, kurniakanlah daku sahabat-sahabat sejati yang boleh kujadikan teman di masa senang dan susah. Amin~

May Allah Bless

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